🙋♀️ Hey there, Facebook fam! Get ready for some juicy drama... 😬 I'm a 17-year-old girl with a naturally skinny bod thanks to my fast metabolism and love for soccer ⚽. But lately, my friendship with my bestie has been put to the test all because of my figure! 😲 She's gained some weight recently and has been feeling super insecure. Things got heated at a pool party when she refused to swim and accused me of showing off! 🙄 I tried to be supportive, but maybe I was a bit too blunt... 😕 Now I'm feeling guilty and wondering if I'm the a-hole in this situation. 🤔 Let's dive into this messy tale and see what you think! 👀
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🤷♀️ Am I a Bad Friend for Not Covering Up My Skinny Body? 😬
Whew, talk about a sticky situation! 😅 My naturally slim figure has caused some major tension with my bestie who's been struggling with her weight and body image. 😔 I tried to be supportive at a pool party, but she accused me of flaunting my bod and triggering her past eating disorder. 😲 I may have been a bit too blunt in my response, basically telling her my body isn't my problem. 🙄 Now I'm feeling guilty and wondering if I should've been more sensitive. 😢 My other friends think she's being dramatic, but I can't help but feel bad. 😕 Let's see what the internet has to say about this tricky friendship dilemma! 👀 Get ready for some spicy hot takes... 🔥
NTA. Mature conversation advised. Use "I feel" statements. 👍
RandyAndHerDog | RandyAndHerDog
Set boundaries. Her mental health is not your responsibility. 👍
Fruit-Additional | Fruit-Additional
Supportive comment defends boundaries and offers advice for friend's insecurity.
WonderfulCoconut | WonderfulCoconut
Your friend's eating disorder is not your responsibility. NTA!
jaidenlm | jaidenlm
NTA. Friend needs therapy, not control over your body 😱
slytherinchica1 | slytherinchica1
Body shaming is never okay! Spread positivity and self-love 👏
singer96 | singer96
Encouraging support for positive self-image 🙌
bestbirdy | bestbirdy
NTA. Friend needs to seek help, don't blame yourself. 🙏
grixisnecromancer | grixisnecromancer
Taking responsibility for triggers: NTA, friend is TA 🙅
RO489 | RO489
Encouraging self-love and therapy for friend with body issues 🙌
skeletenking | skeletenking
Toxic friend shamed commenter for wearing certain clothes. NTA.
HeartpineFloors | HeartpineFloors
Embrace your body, don't let others' insecurities control you 👏
Livvylove | Livvylove
Body image struggles aren't your responsibility. Suggest therapy 💆♀️
kxylixnne | kxylixnne
Friend's body issues are not your fault. NTA. 👍
Lynnel_McQueen | Lynnel_McQueen
Don't blame others for your problems, deal with them responsibly 🙏
Officer_PoopyPants | Officer_PoopyPants
Don't blame skinny people, it's not their fault 🙏
[deleted] | [deleted]
Mature response to friend's eating disorder, emphasizing on care ❤️
deeman010 | deeman010
Being thin doesn't give anyone the right to skinny shame 🚫
Wellness_hippie | Wellness_hippie
You have the right to feel comfortable in your body 💪
Megadeth619 | Megadeth619
Body shaming friend is TA, commenter NTA 👏
MentalDeficient | MentalDeficient
Stand up to body shaming. NTA for refusing change.
SweetSerenity9985 | SweetSerenity9985
Friend's request to cover up is selfish, NTA stands up
ILikeToJustReadHere | ILikeToJustReadHere
Don't feel guilty for unintentionally triggering someone's past. NTA 👍
georgekart | georgekart
Body shaming is never okay, even if it's self-projection. #NTA
WifeofBath1984 | WifeofBath1984
Taking responsibility for insecurities. NTA 👏
terrapharma | terrapharma
Body-shaming is never the solution, you're NTA 👏
JasminRR | JasminRR
Envy towards a naturally skinny sister but NTA for blaming her.
single_lane_road | single_lane_road
Navigating friendship and mental health in teenage years 🤔
monday-night-fuckbal | monday-night-fuckbal
NTA. Empathy and encouragement, not accommodation, is the answer. 👏
Wit-wat-4 | Wit-wat-4
Navigating a fat-phobic world with disordered eating: a helpful resource.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't let someone else's insecurities dictate how you live 🙌
[deleted] | [deleted]
Don't let someone else's insecurities bring you down 💫
akioamadeo | akioamadeo
Empathetic NTA advice for friend with eating disorder triggers 😟
cpic015 | cpic015
Being skinny doesn't make you responsible for triggering someone's ED 💪
0verjoyed | 0verjoyed
Supporting a friend with an eating disorder: be empathetic, not controlled 😔
SaggyCaptain | SaggyCaptain
Advice for not dimming your light and redirecting self-deprecation 👍
Madamoiselle_Martine | Madamoiselle_Martine
Don't let anyone use their 'triggers' as a narcissistic bludgeon 👊
ProjectKurtz | ProjectKurtz
Body positivity and self-love, encouraging friend to seek therapy 👏
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One piece swimsuits don't hide body size/shape, NTA.
ValkaIndigo | ValkaIndigo
Personal experience of losing weight and NTA support.
OgreAllOver | OgreAllOver
Embrace your body! NTA, don't let her insecurities harm you 👏
SnooPineapples7905 | SnooPineapples7905
Supportive comment shows empathy for friend's eating disorder struggles 🙌
xkjax | xkjax
Defending against body-shaming and blaming. NTA 🚫👎
TheDevilsAdvokaat | TheDevilsAdvokaat
Being mindful of weight talk can help prevent eating disorders 👍
Wasbornwithagill | Wasbornwithagill
Skinny teen defends himself against friend's eating disorder triggers 🙌
343-guilty-mendicant | 343-guilty-mendicant
Body shaming triggers eating disorder past. NTA but be sympathetic.
lacyjacobs | lacyjacobs
Standing up for oneself and setting boundaries is important. NTA 💪
FlatwormDangerous | FlatwormDangerous
Responsibility of managing triggers lies with the individual. NTA 👍
neobeguine | neobeguine
Body shaming is never okay, even if it's unintentional. 🙏
kalsixx888 | kalsixx888
Don't let anyone guilt trip you about your body. NTA 👌
uSusanrabbit | uSusanrabbit
Former ED sufferer defends friend from unfair clothing criticism.
Rainbow_dreaming | Rainbow_dreaming
Recovering from an eating disorder is tough, but not others' responsibility 🤷♀️
bab_101 | bab_101
Friend's pool triggers eating disorder? NTA for going swimming.
RobertDaulson | RobertDaulson
Setting boundaries for mental health is not being rude 🙏
starrcuff | starrcuff
Supportive comment acknowledges friend's emotional struggle with body image.
ExistingEffort7 | ExistingEffort7
Recovered anorexic offers wise words of support and encouragement 👏
Beautiful_Heartbeat | Beautiful_Heartbeat
Body-shaming is never okay, even if it triggers someone's past.
Fun_Program6859 | Fun_Program6859
Blaming and demanding change is unreasonable. NTA.
widefeetwelcome | widefeetwelcome
Self-accountability and empathy for those with eating disorders. 💪
kyle_dntk | kyle_dntk
Existing isn't a trigger. NTA. 👏
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Body-shaming friend is toxic. Eating disorders can get competitive. NTA 🙌
feyre_0001 | feyre_0001
Being comfortable in your body isn't a bad thing 👍
environmental_damsel | environmental_damsel
Body positivity wins: friend's hotness is a win-win for all 👏
cindytheripper | cindytheripper
Don't blame yourself for your friend's triggers. Encourage counseling 💪
bloodrose_80 | bloodrose_80
Encouraging response to someone struggling with a friend's mental health 👍
20Keller12 | 20Keller12
Body shaming is never okay. NTA for having your own body.
MyFaceSaysItsSugar | MyFaceSaysItsSugar
NTA calls out friend's blaming behavior for triggering her disorder.
[deleted] | [deleted]
Body shaming doesn't just happen to bigger people. 👏
[deleted] | [deleted]
NTA. Don't let her eating disorder be your responsibility. 👍
stewbugx | stewbugx
Existing quietly at the pool doesn't make you TA 👍
Morrighan1129 | Morrighan1129
Setting boundaries with friends for their own progress 👍
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Be confident in your body, don't let others bring you down 💪
WonderDeb | WonderDeb
Don't feel guilty, it's not your responsibility to avoid triggers 🙏
brazentory | brazentory
Healthy body shouldn't trigger others, NTA for loving yourself 👏
Viperbunny | Viperbunny
